Baby laundry ????

How do you wash your baby’s clothes?

I know there are special detergents for newborns like dreft, baby ganics... but no softeners? I’ve read it has to be special detergents or it can irritate the baby’s skin?

But I washed my baby’s clothes with dreft and I noticed some of the clothes came out stiff af omg pls don’t judge but i feel bad putting my baby in stiff ass clothes😩 you can’t use softener for baby’s clothes right?