Gender reveal

So last pregnancy I didn’t find out the sex of the baby. This time around we are, I wanted to do a gender reveal just with immediate family (in-laws parents siblings), my mother on the other hand wants me to invite like my whole family. If we invite my family then we’ll have to invite my husbands whole family... cause if we don’t his family will be like “wtf”. My mother is like “if we don’t invite the aunts then I won’t get invited to their stuff” 🙄umm okay make it about you. I basically said fine we won’t do a gender reveal then. I’m so annoyed. I want to do one but at this point I’m just going to open the damn envelope my self.

What would everyone else do?