What is your opinion on unmarried parents? What goes through your mind when you hear of a couple who is unmarried but share children together? Genuinely curious. My partner and I have been together for almost 3 years and will have two children soon (due in July) and we are unmarried. He is a divorced man (divorced twice) because he spontaneously got married with his ex's. We have spoken about marriage, but right now we want to focus on our children and our relationship. A lot of people we know judge me and say "how can you have children with him, but not marry him?" It gets annoying to hear. His parents always bug him about when we will get married. My mom doesnt care because she sees we are in a great relationship.