Sister miscarriage

Sorry, I’m advance, I had no idea where to post this. Is there any support groups for family members and miscarriages?!?!?

My sisters water broke today (she was about 4 months pregnant) and was taken to the ER. They said the baby had been dead for weeks and so they induced labor. She had to go through labor knowing full well her baby was dead. I cannot imagine and have not stopped crying about it.

She’s been trying to have a baby for years and I was so excited for her to be a mom and me an aunt! We all had feeling it was going to be a boy and it was... they let her hold him. I don’t know how I can be this devastated over a baby that was never even mine...

She’s also across the country, I can’t even be there as a sister.

Is there anything you guys recommend sending (like a gift) that might boost her up or let her know I care? I had an entire baby registry setup for her too and now... 😭 My heart is just broken!