My husband claims he is just tired and doesnt want to have sex. I am 24 and he is still 28. I understand him being tired but like there isn't foreplay nothing. My boobs are uneven majorly and I am over weight and so is he but my point is when he says no when i ask or ignores me it makes me feel really self conscious. I asked him if he would go to the dr to see if there is something they could do for his sex drive and he said no because it is embarrassing. At this point I don't know what to do. I clearly want sex and my vibrator isn't the same. I want that connecting with my husband instead of feeling like room mates and yes I have told him all of this. Has anyone else dealt with this and if so how did you handle it? Just wait for him to want it? Refuse him if he ask?