So me and my husband are both 25 we have a 4 year old and a 8 month old together.

Recently we visited my aunt and uncle in Vegas we had a wonderful visit my uncle and aunt have a beautiful home they built together.

They are the only ones in my family to that successful with a beautiful home and good paying jobs and beautiful cars .

My uncle and aunt want us to move to Vegas to live with them they said they would help us buy a home since we have been saving for a house but cost of living in California is super expensive especially in homes .

My uncle has told my husband he will get him a job his son owns a business and he will get him in and my aunt agreed to help us with our kids since they are both retired 🤔

They said there is a lot of job opportunities and cheaper homes in Nevada. ALSO MY mother is trying to convince me and my husband to stay in the valley just because she don’t want us to take her grandkids so far away from us but it’s not like she sees them everyday she works a lot she comes around when she can and I’m looking at it as if it’s cheaper and we are able to find a nice home for us it’s something we should do but my mom is making us feel bad about even thinking about it

We want to make the move but just afraid of the busy life style there we live in the valley in California it’s so much diff has anyone made a big choice like that