Have you ever “stolen” someone’s SO or SO-in-waiting (during the unofficial but exclusive phase)?

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I’ve accidentally stolen someone’s prom date. I asked him if he was going with anyone and he said yes, so I said forget it then. He told me that he’d rather go with me, so he told the other girl he’s not going to take her anymore. That was a little less than three years ago. The guy she ended up going with is now her fiancé.

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No. Cause I'm not a shitty person

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Back in middle school I had a major crush on my ex, but she was dating a girl who I was friends with. They were on and off constantly and my ex would start dating somebody else as soon as they broke up. Her typical relationshipa only lasted like a week. She and I were talking for months and she told me one time that she broke up with her on/off ex and they stayed broken up for a while, she was single, and after a while of being broken up her ex missed her and asked to get back together, so they did. She told me all this then told me the next day that she liked me, and broke up with her on/off ex the next day and asked me out then.
I felt bad for the girl, because my ex literally dumped her right after they got back together and told her she was gonna ask me out, and the girl had a vendetta against me ever since. I was young and stupid. My ex was complete trash though, so at least I did homegirl the favor of getting my ex out of her life?
Either way, middle school/high school was just a cringey time

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1.) You can't steal someone's partner since people aren't property and their decision to leave a relationship should be entirely up to them and nobody else.
2.) No since I don't really express much interest in people anyways and also if someone is taken and monogamous or just not interested, you absolutely should back off. Don't harass people just because you find them attractive, consent matters.

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It was always in accident

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I didn’t steal him. I didn’t want him. I just wanted to sleep with him, and I didn’t know about her. He didn’t tell me about her until after we had been sleeping with eachother. 
First off I felt disgusting and went and got myself checked. We were using condoms 100% but gross. 
I’m sorry but fucking 2 people around the same time is gross to me 
Like did you even shower in between? 
God I hate men.

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I seduced my current SO while he was planning to ask another woman to be his girlfriend. They’d been courting exclusively for a couple of months, and I’d decided I was staying in town after all, rather than going cross-country for this indigenous arts program. 
She felt that I’d “stolen” him from her, and tried a few times to step into our relationship like it was fair game or something. 
I felt her pain but as the female best friend, long term love interest and first person he “fell” for... I felt like the obvious choice. It just sucked that I came into town seemingly “out of nowhere,” far from the equation one day and part of it the next. I would have been hurt if the situation was reversed, but I didn’t feel bad at the time and don’t actually feel bad now.

Have you ever “stolen” someone’s SO or SO-in-waiting (during the unofficial but exclusive phase)?

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