I’m “forcing” my husband to love me

Patty • Trying to give my peaches a rainbow sibling 🍑

My husband and i have been arguing almost every month for a year , the fact that he doesn’t show me affection, effort, etc I’ve talked, yelled, cried, everything , but nothing... I’ve gotten to the point where I’m tired of begging him to love me. We spoke and he said i need to stop forcing him to love me .. that he’s not affectionate anymore .. that he’ll start trying soon.. i said it should come natural it shouldn’t be a job ... ive done everything .. i mean everything I’ve worked our entire relationship, i take care of our finances, i cook, clean, etc he just plays video games and coaches .. and what bugs me more is that his willing to show so much love and attention to our dog and his friends, but not to me ?? Make it make sense .all i was asking was for love .. just a hug , a thank you .. something that made me feel that all this agony is worth it .. but no . I told him i can’t keep going like this. He’s my husband , not my kid ... idk what to do ? Any opinions ? Am i overreacting? I just feel like he doesn’t love me anymore .. he’s willing to prioritize everything else except me .. Like this marriage isn’t going to last any longer ..