Respect

Should women have the bar set high on standards for men such as no man should treat you like this you should have respect etc. even if the women doesn’t? I see so many one sided posts on here how many people comment on a post about how there man did all of this stuff to them or said horrible shit to them but is it warranted when the women does the same to the man??? People always say how you deserve better but do they if they are doing the same thing? If both people act like the same towards each other in a relationship do you think it can still work out??