FET Failed 😩😞😒

Katelynn, momma to Banks πŸ’— (IVF) +πŸ•πŸ‘ΌπŸ‘Ό, 4 on 🧊

So heartbroken πŸ’” Beta came back negative today. They are thinking next steps would be an ERA followed by a 2 embryo transfer with a Valium beforehand. Wondering why they didn’t do that the first time? They said my uterus was contracting during transfer and the embryo stuck to 2 catheters so had to use 3 before it went in (so should they have given me a Valium and tried an hour later??) Some questions for the group:

- has anyone had success after ERA? And how much did that push back the timeline of your next transfer?

- was Valium part of your protocol before transfer?

- does anyone have friable cervix? I’ve been spotting since the day of transfer.

Appreciate this group so much πŸ’— hoping everyone else has better outcomes