Friendship advice

Jessi • Just tracking my cycle and staying healthy
Ladies, I need some help. My best friend always "needs space" whenever he thinks we might get in a fight, and I'm sick of it. We're on space right now and I'm just getting more and more frustrated with him. Any idea of what to do? I've been told to just wait for him to come back, then confront him. Other ideas? It's really triggering my depression and my eating disorder and I'm just not sure what to do.
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ugh I had this problem with my BFF, and (among other things?) ruined our friendship. not to be pessimistic about your situation! but I empathize about it triggering depression (and anxiety/ptsd). if your friend is willing, what would be helped me deal with it better would be been if my friend gave me some sort of warning that she needed space, then I would've still felt depressed but not so lost and I could've better respect what she needed and generally been more in control of my response.Unfortunately my friend was not in any capacity willing to do this :/ or have any conversation on the mattermay also help to look up attachment styles if you don't know about to already. 

Do

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Sounds like hes not emotionally available.