My boyfriend can’t make me orgasm!?

Question

No guy has ever been able to make me cum. I can make myself orgasm on my own in about 15/20mins but my boyfriend is doing it with his hands and mouth, I’m directing him and communicating but it still just doesn’t work. 
Like he’s tried for over 40 mins and it feels good but I can never get there.... anyone know why?

Answer

You should talk to him out of the bedroom about the things you like. Ask what he likes too. Sex is more fun when you are pleasing each other. I would be so frustrated laying there for 40 minutes. After 10 im like time to change it up. Foreplay is also a really great help. The more turned on you are, the better. It is also important to be relaxed so thats why i say talk outside the bedroom so you dont get frustrated.  You could also try incorporating toys. Also if he fingers you while he is eating you out. It takes me about 30 seconds to cum like that lol

Answer

Honestly, it could just be as simple as you getting worked up, telling yourself “come on, climax already!” 
I have done this so many times just overthinking things. If I have an off day and it takes me a while to have an orgasm I start worrying about it and get so tense. 
So talk to your partner and be honest, just say that you need to not feel like it’s taking too long, you want to be able to climax but it takes some time. Just be completely comfortable and open 🙂

Answer

Just happens sometimes.

My boyfriend can’t make me orgasm!?

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