TTC Question

I conceived my first child the first month of trying, but TTC #2 is not coming as easy. We have been TTC for 3 months now, which I know is not a long time at all! But, these months are DRAGGING.

Just curious who has conceived by just going with the flow and having fun? All these apps, OPKS, and planning are taking all the fun out of this, but I want to become pregnant so badly!