this is my best friend. she met this guy on snapchat a week ago and after 4 days said i love you. they have never met in person or called or facetimed the other. she told me they might hangout monday. i responded with (this was like half joke half serious) “so you’ll hangout with him but not me?” she told me she can’t hangout because of corona and will “check a day” she’s free but never respond. and she asked what days i’m free and i said monday and Tuesday, i’m working the rest of the week. she said “ok we can hangout monday.” i asked what time and she said i can pick. but this is how she put it:

“whatever time you want but don’t be surprised if i cancel last minute if he wants to hangout sooner with me.”

like the fact she’s putting a guy first really fucking hurts, especially since he has sooo many red flags that she’s ignoring (like saying i love you after four days and saying he wants her to wear a sweatshirt with his name on it so people know she belongs to him plus some other stuff)

we are both 17 and he is 16 (supposedly but he looks 30) and idk am i right to be hurt by this?