Serious question

What does it mean for you to have your "shit together " as a woman? Do you necessarily have to have your own place. Im working on that, still live with my parents but This guy told me that and I felt quite offended... i have a car, full time job, clean, cook with a good heart and try daily to have a peace of mind.

But to you woman to woman what does it mean to have your shit together? Is it financially?