My boyfriend and I sleep in separate rooms and separate beds

And we get a lot of shit for it... Everyone that hears it, asks “why?” And has a sad look on their face. We sleep in separate rooms because he snores so so loud. I keep telling him he needs a cpap machine, but he hasn’t tried it. I’ve tried ear plugs, sleep meds, falling asleep before him etc. I wake up several times a night and I’m a light sleeper. I don’t know what to do, keep trying to push him to try a cpap machine or just try not to let everyone get to me. His friend came and dropped off a dresser here and asked him in a weird tone of voice why I have my own separate area where my bed is, and I just feel really judged.