Hi Mommas

I’m due with my second baby 16th Jan 2021 and was wondering what people think I should do about my second birth. My first labour was awful and Horrendous so i am already petrified of this time.

First time I got induced as baby was measuring big. The pain was horrendous, baby was trying to come out sideways, I ended up having a bad hemmorage and loosing a lot of blood. I was so unwell and had to stay in hospital a week as my pulse was high and I had a temp.

4 weeks later I came down with sepsis and I had retained placenta which none of the doctors realised even tho I was so unwell after birth🙄 this led to me getting awful postpartum anxiety and depression.

Anyway my question is do you think I should maybe opt for a c-section this time? Would it make a difference? Can you still hemmorage with a c-section? What was anyone’s experience with the pain after?