Baby shower?!

Amanda

I planned to have a baby shower, small, September 12. I assumed most people wouldn’t go and just send me something. This is my dream come true. Our last pregnancy and a boy, we lost 2 previously, and I wanted to shower him with love! I already ordered cake, dessert table, backdrop and supplies... now my mom is telling me I need to cancel it. Do a virtual or drive by shower. Idk what to do.