Anyone else have the same problem?

Question

I'm pretty sure I know what I want in a guy and the things I really dont want... but it always seems that when I find a new guy that I like, If he has those traits I dont like I always reason with myself and accept it. The thing is it always bites me in the ass in the end but I feel like im just really accepting of people and I want to see that theres good in everyone. Am I doing something wrong? HELP PLEASE 😩

ps- Just came out a relationship where I accepted the fact that he had ex drama.. lets just say that didnt work out 😒

Answer

Don't ever settle. Stick to those things you want and wait for someone who rises up to meet them. Obviously no one is ever perfect, but avoid using your own tolerance level to justify your feelings for him or as the reason you stay. "well I guess I can put up with this" is probably a bad sign. Trust your gut! It can be hard to deny the attention a guy gives you because it always starts off really awesome, but if you're not careful it alters your perspective of who they really are and you're always trying to make them fit into your idea of what you really want. This is especially the case when they have a couple traits you REALLY like but you know there's not much other than that. In short, wait for the full package!!

My personal experience, my senior year of high school there was a super handsome guy I started talking to, we had maybe 2 similar interests... And I justified those TWO as reasons to keep talking to him even though he was a high school drop out and did a bunch of questionable things. In the end I came to my senses and doged a bullet. He was playing me like a violin anyways and talking to 4-5 other girls. No thanks. First year university, unexpectedly, out of the blue I met my current boyfriend who is all I could hope for and more. Dean's list, has his own place, great body, presents his research at conferences all around the world, takes such good care of me, and everything else I could ever want. The right person will come into your life at the right time, often when you least expect it! Hang in there! Good luck!! :) YOU DESERVE THE BEST ALWAYS.

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