Friends with benefits

I need advice, the past month and a bit I’ve had a friends with benefits, I’ve never had one before so I don’t know the do’s and don’t of it and was wondering if people could give me their take on it, some nights he stays the night, we cuddle, he remembers the little things I tell him and he went to a party last week and rang me drunk to tell me he loved me and that he was on the way over, i then had to put him to bed because he got a taxi to my place. I’m confused because I don’t know if he wants more, i kind of brought it up and he said he doesn’t want to jump into a relationship but he wasn’t going anywhere, I’ve talked to my friends about it and think they might just be telling me what I want to hear so I’d love for some brutal honesty. When he’s here he’s very sweet and says all the rights things and makes me think he wants something more but when he goes home we barely text and he never asks to do something like go on a date or anything so I’d just really like an opinion on that and what the do’s and don’t of a FWB would be 🤷‍♀️😅