Reminding family that YOU are the mama

Maybe it’s just me but does anyone else have a problem with family (mostly my MIL and mom) swooping in all the time and acting like the mom to their baby. Baby cries and there they are trying to sooth her as she reaches for me from their arms. Time for food, and there they are swooping in again trying to feed her things she’s not ready for and saying “well I fed my kids this when they were her age”.

The thing that I hate the most is when they say “my baby” when referring to her. It drives me crazy and I don’t know what to do about it because they won’t stop