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What's happened when you've tried speaking with him about it?Has he ever done and/or said anything to subconsciously make you feel he would cheat or leave?
Crazy dreams
I keep having dreams that my SO is either cheating and or is telling me he's done, no talking about it, no trying to work it out, he's just leaving us. I read that its normal to have these dreams but that doesn't make it easier. Only advice has been to talk to him about it, which i have but it hasn't helped. Has anyone experienced this? Has anything helped?
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Su
You're not mentally sabotaging the effort, you're being normal..and human 😉 It's natural to worry and understandable, too. As long as you have complete trust for him and truly feel he's making a valid effort to make things work all you can do is go day by day.
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Hes told me that he would never do that and he will say that im the only one he wants but we used to be very off and on at the beginning and even after we found out about the baby, we have had arguments that have come close to a break up but we are both really trying to make it work which is why it doesnt make sense that i would mentally try to sabotage that effort
I have had this...not just dreams but major paranoid feelings!! With no reason to ever doubt my husband's fidelity. He has been very understanding and just gave me extra attention...it's somewhat normal (my sister went through this too) and sometimes just talking about it and remembering it's probably just hormones helps. It will pass. For me it took about a day or two, and then it felt better. Pregnancy does crazy things to our minds and bodies!
Omg i keep having the complete opposite. That i leave him! I have a 7 year old who ive raised on my own and help from my parents. My boyfriend treats us like royalty and a part of me keeps pushing him away but when im with him i melt. I think our hormones are fn crazy! Lol if you guys had a healthy relationship before im sure all is fine. ♡
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