Sex question

So i have a question and it’s something that makes me feel completely terrible for even asking. Well my bf is very attracted to me, so that means he wants to hook up 2 times a day or so. For me, I don’t want to have sex that much. So when he says suck it for a minute, I will, then he turns it into more and don’t get me wrong I love having sex with him but I feel over done by it. I tell him and he knows this so he will say that i make him feel bad for being attracted to me. Idk it seems terrible bc after that I do feel bad bc I am not pleasing my man as much as his heart desires. I do not want to end things with him. That’s not even an option, I just need to figure out a way to compromise for this. And yes jerking off is an option. Idk I just feel bad bc I’m not sexually active 14 times in one week anymore.