Is this abusive....

My fiancé who I’ve been with 9 years gets really angry with me when I don’t want to go to bed at the same time as him, I haven’t been working due to covid and I just finished school and looking for a job. He works and goes to bed early to wake up early where as I like to stay up a bit later to relax and watch some shows then I’ll go to bed around 12 or 1. He starts yelling at me every half hour if he wakes up and sees I’m not in bed yet, he calls me name and says I’m a selfish piece of shit for not going to bed with him when he does... not going to lie it puts me down because and it makes me hate myself for not being the way he wants me to be. I just want opinions, does anyone else think this is abuse or is it just me?