Before I had my daughter we said we only wanted one child. It would be easier to spend time with her, travel, easy for our pocket books and she could really experience life. I also said I wasn’t going to have another kid just because I missed the new born stage but I think I’m getting that way.

I’ll ask my daughter if she wants me to have a baby and she says yes. Does she want a little brother or sister, yes! Ask her if she wants to rob a bank... yes! Now I’m torn. What if 10 years from now she really wishes she had a sibling.

I’ll be 35 in 6 months and I know I’m already going to need to lose a ton of weight. It also took almost two years to have her. I loved being pregnant but I don’t know if I can go thru sleepless nights and weight gain again.

Help! How do I make this decision?