Kinda Mad

So if this is in the wrong room tell me and I’ll take it down, but I just wanted to complain for a second. Wtf is with this whole “when you stop trying it will happen” nonsense?? Seriously? How does that remotely make sense? FIRST of all I’ve actively tried for years, fertility Drs. the works

and now I’ve taken year off of trying, no resting no opk, quit drinking quit smoking, lost weight just bettered my life and didn’t focus on a baby, and not a damn thing happened. At 39 years old I don’t have TIME to just say f$@* it and wait for it to happen. Sorry I’m just venting but I’m SICK of being told it will happen when I stop trying because I’m here to say NO! EVERYONE WAS STILL TRYING WHO SAYS THAT Sh*T if you were not on birth control!!! So PLEASE stop telling me to stop trying because trust me, your egg didn’t fertilize itself honey.