Just need guidance

Vivian • ‘99 Baby 🏳️‍🌈 🇵🇷 💍

My husband and I just got married yay! But now the dreaded paperwork is upon us and it’s driving us insane. Sometimes it is really confusing to me and I get super irritated but obviously not with him. He’s stationed in Germany and all I want to do is get over to him. Do you have any stories about marrying someone who’s already been in the military? And did you have any experience with moving over to OCONUS without your sponsor with you? Even just a little pep talk would help us, it’s all just so overwhelming 🥺