About six months after our wedding my husband tells me that he has been seeing other women for the past three years. This means, that here has been going on dates but, apparently, has not been physical with them. This last person he lead on and ended up having feelings for her, typed up fake divorce papers saying he was leaving me for her and he told her, "I want to look into your eyes while I put a baby in you". This crushed me since we had been talking about us getting pregnant on our wedding night and, even then, he withdrew and still does. He has low self-esteem for being overweight and just wants everything to be perfect. Meanwhile, I'm over here, 33 years old and anxiously waiting for the day I finally get to become a mother.

Last night, I tried to put my best moves on him and he broke the mood three times before we actually had sex. I know he's still not happy, after re-committing to me. How can I show him support and encouragement to be the best version of himself he can be? Only then, I hope he will be able to feel comfortable with creating a family again.