Am I wrong for not giving her the money?
So a little back story: We’ve only been friends for like 2 months. I’m always picking her up and dropping her off (she doesn’t drive) when we go out, but I recently stopped doing that because she was acting entitled and ungrateful — and I was just tired of acting like her Uber when she lives 25 min from me. She would complain about why I didn’t stop directly in front of her building door , “you parked mad far, making me walk” . And she’s said this many times and I’d just brush it off .
Another time , during a week day she calls me at like 11pm asking me to take her home. Knowing I have work at 8am. She was out at some bar and allegedly lyft was acting up and now she was “stranded” . Ironically I was already out .. with a guy 🙃 & she basically guilt tripped me into coming to get her. She was only 10 minutes from her house !?! Why didn’t she call a cab/taxi ?? (I asked)
Basically long story short I’ve been so nice to this girl and she’s just ungrateful in some ways and I’m starting to feel like she’s being too dependent on me .
OKAY ! Now back to her asking me for money. So she texts me this :
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Initially I didn’t mind giving her the $10 but she didn’t even say “borrow “ or “Lend” , so naturally I’m like what for ? Because if u asking for money that u don’t intend on paying back , I need to know what u got me paying for ! Plus this was like 10pm . U just now realizing u don’t have money for food ?? So as u see I say “what for?” But for some reason that “🤨 is it a problem?” Got me annoyed because why are u getting defensive about me asking what u want money for ? As if I already don’t do so much for u 😒. She tried doing that passive guilt trip “you don’t have to” and yeah ... I didn’t want to lmao . So I just ignored it . Now she texts me today talking about some damn theme park. U just needed $10 but now u have enough money for an amusement park ? That I have to use MY car for? 🙄 it’s like she’s always wanting to hang out and go places but like sis WHERES YOUR CAR? I have a luxury car , I’m financing so mileage isnt an issue but what I’m not finna do is run my car to the ground all summer because u just don’t want to be in the house .
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