My mother needs to chill
I need advice on how to handle my mom.
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for almost a year. Went to the doctor, they found a polyp that I have to have surgery to remove. I’ve been in tons of pain, and really sad.
I’m super close to my mom, and talk to her every day. I call her earlier this week and tell her about the surgery and she isn’t supportive. Tells me my “biological clock is ticking,” and that I need to “hurry up and make her a grandma.” Mind you she has 2 step kid grandkids who I make a giant part of her life.
I hung up on her after she said those things to me and haven’t talked to her since. It’s been 3 days. She texted me twice, I replied, very short (“you too.”) to the last one.
I’m angry at her.. I don’t know what to do. Do I express my anger or just take some space and talk to her when I’m ready? (Which I’m assuming is when I’m *hopefully* pregnant one day so I can fulfill her damn needs).
Any advice is appreciated.
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