My family and friends have never classed me among the “confident” or “charismatic” types. I’ve always been shy ig. But since the beginning of my sexual awakening I have always felt that I would be the dominant party during sex (my taste in men furthers my theory). Basically any time I see an attractive man by my standards, the first sexual thought I have is “god what I wouldn’t give to see him in a collar”. I’m just wondering how I can be a non dominant personality and still have these desires. Thx.