My boyfriend is 22 and he’s still in the “I’m young let me live my life” phase. He’s going out every weekend getting drunk, high and all this dumb stuff and comes home at 3am. I’m getting very tired of it. He has a very stressful job and says that hanging out with his friends is a huge stress reliever. I get it. You’re young and you want to live you life while you can. You know, before you have kids, before you have to pay a mortgage. But cmon man. There’s other ways to relieve stress. I’m afraid that he is getting addicted to this stuff and he keeps denying it. We’ve been together for 5 years. I don’t want to lose him. But I also don’t want to keep him if he’s just gonna act like a 16 year old for the next 5 years. 😫😫😫😫

Edit: He hasn’t gotten in trouble with the law yet. And he’s doing pills, acid, shrooms. I don’t want him to COMPLETELY get rid of his friends. It’s just that his friends are a bad influence. They never hang out just to chill. It’s always getting high, blacking out, etc.