He took his penis out during a FaceTime call.

I’ve been talking to this guy for 11 months now. We met through mutual friends last year and we started dating for a month before he got a new promotion out of state. He took the opportunity but we decided to keep getting to know each other even with the long distance. We had planned to meet up in March but due to COVID it has been almost imposible but we are still ‘dating/ talking’ everyday (non-stop)

During our first few months of talking he asked for some ‘sexy’ pictures and I said I didn’t feel comfortable etc , he was ok with it. We would play around with back and forth sexy comments and stuff but whenever I felt it was too much I would let him know.

Last month he asked me for a nude photo I told him I didn’t like that and that it made me uncomfortable to know that someone (even my mom) had a naked picture of me. He understood and said he was sorry to even ask.

Fast forward to our current situation... I have a trip planned coming up in two weeks to go visit him , so we were FaceTiming and talking about the trip and he said ‘we’ll be too busy to go anywhere’ (referring to having sex) next thing on my screen was his aroused penis 🍆 as he started to touch and masturbate himself. I felt 💯 uncomfortable but felt that I was being crazy if I told him to stop. I told him I wasn’t going to show him my privates tho until we were stading in front of each other , he begged for a little but I stood my ground. He kept touching himself. After that he said that the trip should be shortened to 3 days instead of 5 because he ‘just’ realized he had to work the day I was supposed to arrive and he wanted to be able to pick me up at the airport.

My questions and concerns:

Is this normal for long distance ?

Was I wrong to not show him my vag ? Should I show him before the trip?

Does it sound like he only wants sex from me ?

I am very confused. Maybe this is normal and people do it all the time but I’ve only seen him 2 times in person and we never even kissed.

We FOR sure will be having sex during my visit but for me it was more a trip to decide if we were going to formalize whatever we have or not but maybe all he is thinking about is the sex?!? Idk , now I’m confused and unmotivated 🥺. What do you think tho? Maybe I’m overreacting.

PD: we are both 25 y/o, we both had long term relationships in the past.