Healing?

jm
Okay so i have a question.. Im on my second baby my first is 3years old already so im kind of forgetful about the healing part after you give birth...πŸ™„ 
How long does it take to realllyyy heal down there?! 
Ladies who are on your second baby, do you ever get back to normal down there after you heal?
Im so scared ! But definitely want my "you know" to go back to normal of not tighter like it did with my first baby! lol sorry TMI questionsπŸ˜’πŸ‘€πŸ™ˆπŸ˜¨πŸ˜‚ Please no judging &Honest answers! Cuz im soo curious!