Ugh, men

First of all I’m not a jealous person, I’m a hurt woman who knows I am beautiful just tired of being put down. My husband used to be amazing to me. For the past six months he’s taken adipex to lose about 30lbs and now all I hear is gym this gym that you and how I need to lose weight to get healthier. Healthy m, yes. But when he maps it out that I am “obese” that wears me down. Then he says I never put you down. He doesn’t want me to go to the gym with him. Tells me to stop being so self conscious and that I look “stupid” (I wear thin cardigans to work often) and he clicks on every perverted and half naked photo and video on social media. This morning he told me if *i* don’t change then he’s not coming home. Wtf?