A little bit of background. My last relationship was a pretty toxic one with a guy that had me convinced he loved me and I wasn't good enough for him, he threatened to kill himself if I did send him nudes or did anything he didn't like and any time I said the smallest thing wrong he would say it was because I didn't love him enough. It took me a few months but I managed to get out of that unhealthy relationship with some help from my friends. Now I am with someone who treats me better than I could have ever imagined, we are both in the navy and we have crazy hours but he makes time to talk to me and when I'm working and he is off he brings me water. He does little things like help me get dressed and no one has done that before and it is one of my favorite things, the other day I had a bad dream about my ex and when I woke up I texted him and told him what happened and he ran to my room to see me and give me a hug (we both live on base). I don't know where I was going with this I just needed to tell someone.