So my husband and I have different sex drives. We’ll have been married for 4 years next month and honestly nothing has changed between us. I respect the fact that he doesn’t want to have sex more than every 3 days or so because I understand that everyone is different when it comes to their sexual needs. But I’m different. Other than on my period, I would like to have sex at least once a day. And he never makes me finish! I’ve tried talking to him about it as in: going down on me more, getting toys, trying to spice things up.. etc. He just calls me ‘freaky’ because of some of the things I like. And says

‘We’ll have a second round I promise’ which never comes. I’m not super dirty but I do enjoy dirty talking and being dominated whereas he’s okay with just doggy style and vanilla sex. It’s starting to get to me! I’ve tried to be understanding but I feel like he won’t listen to me about what my needs are. I just need advice about what I can do! Any advice is appreciated.

TIA ladies!