Any advice?

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I seem to take a while when having sex with my partner to be able to orgasm & he gets mad about it at times; he doesn’t do any foreplay before sex & barely touches me during (occasionally touching my boobs) he gets his then I’m left hanging. However he doesn’t want me using anything with batteries during either for stimulation.. what can I do during to help me?! 🤦🏻‍♀️

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It sounds like he's the one with the problem. His actions and reactions would be very hurtful to me and if they are to you, you should let him know how you feel. This is something that should be enjoyed by two people who love each other. If he can't respect your feelings or your body he needs to shape up or ship out!

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Uhh, dump him! He sounds extremely selfish. A partner should want to make you feel good and want to take care of you also. If my partner wasn't touching me and into feeling me I'd think he was just going me to get off on his own.

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Foreplay is a MUST!!!! Helps a lot! He should touch you and make you wet and horn first...

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Toys are fun I would say try to talk him into it with something simple like a bullet. Nothing crazy and also teach him what he needs to do. If he doesn’t do foreplay make him (not to sound aggressive) lol but let him know you need more. You deserve to be satisfied just as much as he does.

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Ummm.... get you a man who deserves you honey! ❤️ he should be 100% willing to try whatever it is for you to be pleased! It’s not just about him.

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My husband barely does anything before or during sex but I have the opposite problem I finish and he never does.

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Foreplay is a sign of intimacy and an important part of a relationship not only sexual but otherwise too. Seems like he only uses you to release himself and restricting you to avoid using toys to make himself feel better. Selfish douchebag. Leave his ass and dear he isn’t in love with you, Mark my words. Have been through the same. Talking from experience 👍🏼

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I know some people think porns are you know...out there, but sometimes it's gets me going and I look at a certain videos and I am juicy 😂, but it's something that you'll have to decide for yourself honey, because you need to have that pleasure as well honey 🙂

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Get a new boyfriend

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