I had my baby almost 3 weeks ago and she’s perfect but I still don’t feel attached to her or that she’s mine. My husband got attached from the second she was born and has been so much more involved. I feel so sad and guilty and have been kind of resenting him not only bc of the bond he already has but because now I feel like he’s not showing me as much attention. Sounds so ridiculous I know but I can’t help how I feel. I have also been just sad in general I barley smile except when I’m holding my baby. I know this is probably hormonal but I can’t wait for it to go away. This is all just so new and everything is now so different I think I haven’t processed it all yet :(