Well, my friend that offered to have a baby shower for me decided last minute she didn't want to do it because of the holidays. I live in Texas, and all my family lives in Massachusetts. I see people on here complaining about having to share a shower, or that people didn't get them what they wanted. Just be thankful you have people that care enough about you to throw you such a party. I'm always the one doing for my friends and it really puts into perspective people that truly care and ones that don't.