Is this rape?

So i was hanging out with this kid and he wanted to do things but was very aggressive in my opinion. Anyways so he started to like finger me and i told him to wait a few times he didnt and so then i said i wasnt gonna do anything without a condom and then i felt pressured ig n was like whatever so then i told him to stop and he didnt and i just got home. On way home he goes “u did say put it in then so dont try to sue me” but also told me that hes heartless and he told me he doesnt have anything but i cant get tested again so soon i got tested few weeks ago and i dont wanna tell my mom rn if i tell her what happened shell get me tested but like i dont have money for it rn even if i went without her knowing