I was called judgy by my sister in law. Background of conversation: she is in her twenties and went to a lavender farm. The main purpose of this trip was for photos with her sister and friend. I was on the phone with my brother when she came home. We were on speaker phone. She came in all bitchy and rude to my brother which kinda surprised me. She said to me “ you should go to the lavender farm with your son and take photos” I replied with no it’s not my thing I have a son not a daughter I don’t think I’d enjoy those photos for him. She got so mad at me. Calling me rude and judgy. Then she left the conversation and I continued to talk to my brother. She came back four minutes later “ you know your comment really pissed me off, I cant believe you would say such a thing” so I just said I’m going to let you both go now and said bye. I sent a text to her apologizing and said I’m sorry you feel I’m judgy I was just explaining to you why I wouldn’t take my son there, I’m allowed to have an opinion. I won’t be honest with you if you don’t like it again I’m sorry. Enjoy your weekend. She doesn’t even reply. What’s wrong with people? Is it wrong of me for being honest? Personally I find her so dramatic over this. It’s embarrassing to me. This whole situation is so immature and awkward now. Am I judgy because I don’t want flower photos with my son? Lmao 😂