I have never felt so just dismayed. I told my husband i just feel empty and told him why cause obviously his lying. He had 0 empathy and his response was well youv lied to me, ie that bed.( my office now has a daybed in it for company and i have slept in it a few nights because my husband is on a 2 shift job and kept waking me up coming in our room. Oh and he guilt tripped me so bad about the other bed that if i do sleep in there i dont actually sleep) That's seriously his only lie for me response. Im telling him i feel empty and thats his response.

I told him months ago i wasnt happy and he didnt change anything. And he keeps saying hes the only one trying.

My husband is the one i caught on the phone with some other girl at 3am, then found out these calls had been going on for 2 months and lasting 2 to 3 hours and the text message logs. But no the phone calls didnt mean anything. And i am throwing it our of proportion.

He has lied to me numerous times about huge purchases he has made,and tols me he didnt and i found the receipts. Counseling should have started years ago, he said he is finding someone, not me. I told him no religious counseling and he flew off the handle. I am not religous ,never have been ,never will, i wasn't raised that way. Like wtf.