Losing my V-Card 😬

Soooooo I plan on losing my virginity soon. I’ve been thinking about it 5ever and I know i’m ready! It’s just the pain, man 😭 I’ve heard from all my friends and etc. that it hurt like hell and I know everybody is different, but just in case, is there anything I can do to take my mind off of the pain? His thing is like really big too, so even looking at it makes me hurt😂 but I KNOW i’m ready. If there isn’t anything to distract me from the pain, does anyone know the average amount of time the pain lasts? please let me know lol.