Is it possible for a guy to be “too big” for you?

I love my bf and i love having sex with him, but at the beginning it hurts and we have to slowly work it in. Its even caused blisters on his dick?? He doesn’t like the feeling of lube & keeps asking why i don’t want to have sex with him as much now. I do, its just if i dont have at least a day or two in between it hurts, bad