Weight loss whilst TTC...

So I know they say that you are meant to lose weight before you start TTC. But isn't it better that you are losing weight and trying to change your life for the better at all?

I've had enough. Honestly. It came up on my memories today that 2 years ago I'd gotten down to 12 stone and looking the best I ever did. Now I'm 3lbs off of 20st and HATE myself.

And this is probably not helping me TTC. I have just ordered an exercise bike and I love them, and I know it will help me. And I feel like focusing on losing weight will help me get pregnant.

Anyone else found weight loss helped them?