Is your man okay w you having toys & your own fun?

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My mans not really  okay w it. Currently hide my vibrator. I think he feels like I replace him with it but really he works every day I’m a stay at home mom sometimes I just need something to take the edge off & I can’t drink bc I breastfeed lol. I feel bad about it but at the same time I don’t. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Not being okay with a partner having their own sexual outlet and guilting them about things like masterbation isn't okay in a relationship and borderline abuse imo

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When I read “my man is not okay with it” or “my man doesn’t let me”

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I think mine just wishes he could do me as well as my toy can 🤣

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Mine encourages it. He likes to watch and sometimes use them on both of us.

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He shouldn’t have a say in it at all lol it’s your body. Have all the fun you want

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My husband brought all of mine.😂🤷🏽‍♀️

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My husband helps me with it. Or we use it together. But each relationship is different.

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I've been with people who get mad about toys- those people are no fun

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Mines okay with it but I don't lol I like when he plays with me

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My husband is fine with it and I even bought some toys for both of us to try too. My husband felt like as long as it wasn’t a dildo he was okay with it

Is your man okay w you having toys & your own fun?

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