Do I look desperate?

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So tbh I just wanted a booty call but I’ve meant to be meeting this man for the last two weeks and everytime his flaked. He always texts me late at night say at around 1am or 9ish but so I was just trying to be more straight forward about what it was. Because if it’s sex he wants then what’s the problem right?

Does this look desperate? Haha I know it probably does a bit but do you guys reckon I’ve scared him off?

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I think you look desperate because you are trying to fuck someone who continually keeps flaking on you.

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No you just told it as it was but I wouldnt waste your time with someone who keep bailing on you.

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If he can't meet up within days or a week then it isn't going to happen.

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I’ve been in this situation. Turns out the guy had a girlfriend and was just bored when he’d text me and that’s why he never went through with anything. Not saying that’s what’s happening here but if he wanted to show up he would. I’d say just leave it alone.

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I think it's straightforward, but why are you wasting it on this guy? 
You can find one that won't flake and will fuck lol

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No

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I have a question about the “xx” about the end of each message. Is this something your phone automatically does and if not then....why?? lol

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Doesn’t seem desperate

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You don’t seem desperate, but I wouldn’t keep trying if he keeps flaking. Good luck!! Xx

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Stop messing with him and find someone else to hook up with. That text convo sounds like he’s never going to meet up with you and I’d bet he has a gf or someone and talking to you is just for fun for him. Itsgood to be straight up with what you are wanting but you ain’t going to get it from him

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