We’ve been together for a year and a half, we’ve had problems in the past as he can be a bit controlling, and stubborn. He’s 27 I’m 21

Anyway so I’m starting to feel like maybe I’m not being treated right? Idk.

So he stayed with me over lock down and he went home to Greece for a couple months, I think he left about a month ago.

I bought a vibrator and it arrived today, the kind of vibrator that is just for the clit, like not internal at all. I told him about it and really pissed off, and I just don’t get why? He watches porn no problem so?

He’s going camping with 4 girls and 3 other guys (they’re all in relationships) but I can’t buy a vibrator? He can go on a holiday with his friend and go out to bars every night but I go out with my girlfriends for drinks and there is more often than not some kind of problem? Even tho he claims he’s not jealous but I know it comes from that place.

He asked me to come see him in Greece, and when I got the money together, he told me it was too dangerous because of covid. Now he’s going on holidays and out all the time, soon to be camping. If I did that he would flip out.

I have no problem with him going out and enjoying his life, but sometimes I feel like it’s unfair, because he makes me feel like I can’t go out and enjoy mine without there being a problem. And it’s not every time I go out, but most times I go out with my friends he will get mad about something.

There are other examples, which I can’t remember right now, and I’m sure I’m not perfect either, I’m just a bit deflated. And really don’t know what the issue is with me getting a vibrator ????