I csnt trust my husband anymore. After being married for a year I caught him in a bunch of lies. Weed and pills. Well I gave him a chnace to get better he did. We have now been married 3 years and I just caught him smoking weed again. For some this isnt a big deal but for me it is and he knows this. It hurts me because he lied to me about it and also spends money on it when we dont have extra for things we need! Plus how can I believe that he is just using weed and not pills again? He says he isnt but idk.. he has had more than one chnace and now I feel like he isny going to change. Im only giving him a week to prove that he is going to make an effort with me and our child. Has anyone dealt with a similar situation? I dont beleive in divorce but I dont want to keep putting myself through this.